Dear Regyna,
I’m curious about finding a dominate woman in my area who would be interested in finding a submissive male. More often than naught it seems as if girls are more interested in taking on submissive roles than dominate roles.
Lone Sub
Dear LS,
We have been corresponding on this issue for quite some time now. Actually you are one of the main reasons I have decided to do an advice column at all. I met you online in a kink forum when you contacted me to ask about how to go from thinking about to acting on your kink. I also have other correspondents, some of whom I have known for years, that seek me out for advice about sex. Does the world really need another sexpert? Probably not. But apparently you do. And so do some other folks. And as it turns out I really enjoy sharing that sort of thing, it’s fun for me. So I’ve decided to give it a go and see where it takes me. Thank you for playing along!
Lone Sub you are in a difficult place in your kink journey. You know what you like, you know what turns you on, and you have educated yourself about the scene and how to be a good submissive. You’ve taken the time to get to know people, waited until you were old enough to legally pursue your interests, and acted in a respectful manner. You have not, however, yet been able to find a partner to explore with, and you are beginning to get frustrated. This is entirely understandable. You’ve done all the right things. You’ve put yourself out there and faced and accepted rejection with a good attitude. So what gives? Continue reading




